If a child is school age and is being mocked, or the ears are really standing out (for lack of a better phrase), it should definitely be performed. You can discuss it with your child, but really should not require their consultation, as they do not have the comprehension nor cognition to grasp such a concept at a young age. If you do not do it, there will be regrets, as it will cause them emotional issues later in life.
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