Exactly, KatieGirl. We need to know what WE want! If a surgeon can prove to you that your expectations are skewed, that might be a good and honest surgeon. NEVER allow a surgeon to do what YOU don't want. However, as la_angel cited in another thread, surgeons have a skewed view of what is desirable. Not everyone wants to look like a porn star or have trout pout.
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